Thanks all for your responses to my question about reefing the main. They ranged from "never", to some who do and got good results, to those who wished they had. I'm guessing that there must be some happy medium between being blown over and de-powered, to reefed and sailing more upright and in control. I was also concerned about buckling the mast or losing the rig. I've heard of those in the fleet who have lost their masts. A season ending bummer.
I found the thread about the 500 lb. crew weight interesting when deciding whether or not to reef in higher wind speeds.
Eric